The other day I was trying to fix a light. It did not work. So I changed a bulb. But still it did not work. I then tried to unplug it and find a new plug. It did not work.
In fact the light was broken. Everything I would do could not solve the issue. I was losing time, trying to fix something that could not be fixed.
This made me thinking about relationships. Curious link, but we all know God is good to make us understand things his own way.
Sometime we can try our best, if our relationship with a person is broken, if there is no communication, we can keep trying, we will fail. Cause it can’t be fixed. Cause it’s too late.
It’s life. We only have to leave this relationship and walk towards a new life. It’s hard. But because nothing can save us, we’re better off, we should save our energy for the rest of the road.
Slowly I am withdrawing myself from old hopes and childish dreams. Our marriage could not be fixed. We are done, walking on opposite direction. Our relationship is also broken, the one that united us as husband and wife and as mum and dad. We tried to make it work. But nothing worked, cause it was dead long ago.
Now, it’s time to leave this unhappy ending behind and create something better. Nobody has ever seen a broken plate look like a brand new one. It might be tough to say goodbye, but it’s the best gift we can give ourselves at this time.