People in general often ask you questions about your relationship with men. Huge and such interesting topic! Just kidding…
When you say that you don’t have a man at home (I don’t talk about my private life with everybody), people tend to say something like this “don’t worry, you’ll find one” or “you’ll be happy again”.
OK, let me explain you something. I don’t need a man to be happy. I don’t worry about it every single night and day. I don’t worry about it, full stop.
I know, by looking around me at couples who last, that good men exist. Thanks God, Good men DO exist. Or we will all be desperate in love!!
So far, I did not meet any one of them, or I would be happily married to one of them. I obviously met the wrong ones. And that’s ok. We don’t always choose the right fruit in the basket.
I will never go back to the kind of man who leave me half of the time alone to be with his friends, who only dare being with me because I cook something good for diner, who don’t share the bills or even worse, ask me money to buy his plane tickets and mobile phones. I will never go back to the kind of man who cries when I tell him I don’t feel ready for marriage, or who keeps repeating me “do this/ that, if you really love me”.
I was lucky. I escaped darkness. And now I know that unless it’s a good man, no other man will ever share my life.
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